WHY DO PEOPLE REALLY CHEAT?

WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?

Have you ever cheated on your partner or been cheated on, and you wonder why they do it after all the sacrifices you have made? Well here is a suggestion as to why people cheat.
You may already know that cheating is quite common these days and the reasons are multiple. Rather than reviewing the many reasons people cheat, I'm going to focus on one of the main one--  craving emotional connection

         In my study, only very small percentage of cheating men said they were after the sex as compared to larger percentage who reported it was the desire for emotional connection that drove the impropriety. 89% percent of cheaters said the mistress was not better looking or in better shape than their wives. It is just not as simple as wanting sex. Then why, you would ask. Most cheating occurs after he’s formed some close friendship with the woman with whom he will eventually cheat. When men feel emotionally disconnected at home, too many make the horrifying choice to find it somewhere else instead of working to reconnect with their wives. Often, they too are surprised at how their emotional friendship turned into something deeper and physical when that was not their original intention.
       We don’t protect our marriages or relationship. Chemistry is powerful, and people are deeply searching for companionship and love. When a couple is not actively engaged in nurturing their love, they risk danger. Not that cheating is ever justified; it is an ugly choice. But the similar desire to be actively in love has brought us together or driven us to marry, and sadly, can drive many to look outside their marriages or relationships for that love as well. This is why men must be careful not to even allow close friendships to form with other women. They might say it’s fair game, but we need to be developing closer connections in our home, not away from it. If you have found yourself enjoying another woman’s friendship, you need to ask yourself things like: when have I laughed like that, or had a great discussion, or had a fun time, or had a great meal, etcetera, with my wife? Typically, it’s been too long, and it’s time to bring that energy home and work to renew your loving connection.

Skales speaks on his relationship with Wizkid "although we were under the same record label, we were never friends"

Skales speaks on his relationship with Wizkid "although we were under the same record label, we were never friends"

WATCH https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRBSWtP9T4E

On Monday February 23, 2015 twitter rant between ex-label mates Wizkid and Skales still remains a trending topic in the Nigerian music industry. Both stars had a go at each other’s career and personality on social media, and the event has since been generating mixed reactions from fans, industry pundits and their colleagues.

Skales who is currently putting finishing touches on the release of his debut album ‘Man of The year’ was recently cornered by NET for an exclusive interview in Lagos, and in 5 questions, he explained his own angle of the story.

Let’s talk about your recent twitter spat with Wizkid, you guys were together at an event some hours before you went online, what really happened?

The truth is, we were not really together, we were just at the same venue at the same event that’s all, and really, whatever needs to be said now has already been said on twitter so you can pick everything there, right now I’ve put the whole episode behind me. I just want people to focus more on my music, it’s life human beings must always fallout.
 Let’s go back to your time at E.M.E, what kind of relationship did you have with Wizkid?

We were just there, we were cool. For me it was just about making music, that’s what brought us together in the first place, it’s not like we are from the same family, so let’s just focus on the music which was what I did, if I had something on my mind I always say it out.

At what point did you guys really fall out?

We never really fell out, the relationship we had has always been about music, it’s not like we are brothers, we are not from the same family like I said, it was just business and music, so we were cool, and even till now we are still cool, I have no bad blood against him, I just want to face my music right now, I’m about to drop my album and that’s all that matters to me right now.

How long have you been trying to get Wizkid to work with you?

For as long as every other person has been trying I guess (laughs), we know that he’s a busy person and I’m a busy person too, I’m doing my own thing too. The truth is, I really don’t want to talk about it.

Will you consider working with Wizkid anytime soon?

I don’t know, fingers crossed….

Source : TheNET

 

watch the video here  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRBSWtP9T4E

August Alsina is NOT DEAD!!!

There have been news that New York City, NY- Singer August Alsina has passed away earlier this morning after waking up from a three day coma. August Alsina was hospitalized last week following an onstage fall during a concert. Medical experts say that Alsina was dehydrated and suffered a serious drug overdose. He tested positive for a cocktail of narcotics including cocaine, methamphetamine, marijuana, heroin and MDMA. He also suffered a traumatic brain injury as a result of the fall, placing him in a dangerous coma. It has been reported that he also suffered a series of seizures before falling out of consciousness into a coma.

Barely 22 years old, August  Alsina had a promising future that was cut short. He was best known for his hit single, “ I Luv This S***” featuring Trinidad James. His debut studio album was release earlier this past spring. He was also known to “keep it real” in his outrageous on screen outbursts.

Funeral arrangements have not been made but reliable sources tell us the home going ceremony will take place in Alsina’s hometown New Orleans, LA.

He is very much alive,